Strap On Harness Guide: Easy Steps to Choose and Use

If you’re curious about trying a strap on, the first thing to know is that it’s not as hard as it sounds. You just need a good harness, the right size, and a few safety basics. This guide walks you through everything you need to feel confident, from picking a cheap yet solid option to putting it on safely.

Finding the Right Harness for You

Start by thinking about what feels comfortable. Most harnesses have two main styles: belt‑style and thigh‑strap style. Belt‑style wraps around your waist and hips, while thigh‑strap goes around the thighs and sometimes the pelvis. Try both if you can – many online shops let you return if it doesn’t fit.

Measure your waist and hips with a tape measure. Write down the numbers and compare them to the size chart the seller provides. If you’re between sizes, go slightly larger. A snug fit is good, but you don’t want it to cut off circulation.

Material matters too. Look for silicone or skin‑safe rubber on the parts that touch you. These feel smooth and are easy to clean. The straps can be nylon or leather; nylon is usually cheaper and still strong enough for most play.

Budget‑friendly doesn’t mean cheap quality. Brands that specialize in adult toys often have entry‑level kits that include a sturdy harness and a basic dildo. Read a few reviews – you’ll see real users mention if a product squeaks or breaks early.

Putting It On and Staying Safe

First, lay the harness flat on a clean surface. Attach the dildo or plug to the designated ring or pocket. Most harnesses have a quick‑release clip that snaps in place. Make sure the dildo is locked securely before you start.

Step into the waist strap or thigh straps like you would a belt. Pull the strap up and tighten it until it feels snug but not painful. If the harness has multiple buckles, tighten them evenly so the pressure spreads out.

Do a quick check: wiggle the dildo. It should stay put. If it moves a lot, loosen the straps a bit and retighten. Comfort is key, especially if you plan to use it for a while.

Safety tip: always have a clear signal with your partner. A simple “stop” word or hand signal works well. If you feel any numbness, tingling, or pain, pause and adjust the fit. Also, keep a pair of scissors handy in case you need to cut the straps quickly.

Cleaning after use is straightforward. Rinse the silicone parts with warm water and mild soap. Wipe the nylon straps with a damp cloth. Let everything dry completely before storing it in a cool, dry place.

That’s it – you now have the basics to pick a good harness, put it on, and keep things safe. Remember, the best experience comes from comfort, communication, and a little practice. Have fun exploring, and don’t be afraid to try different styles until you find what feels right for you.